Questions about tattoos femme girls?

ok so i'm a little obsessed with tattoos despite not having one, i really like tribal designs, chinese symbols and i really like tattoos which are just writing like the tattoo megan fox has down the side of her body, but i'm a femme girl and people are quick to judge girls who have lots of/and BIG tattoos and i just wondered what are your opinions on femme girls having these kind of tattoos is it kinda butch or hot in some way please help :) thanks in advance