Why Does Obama always expect special treatment?

Why is it that Obama expects special press treatment, expects superdelegates to change their votes based on the popular vote in their states or districts (when never suggesting that his own delegates should do the same), and expects that people should not use his own real middle name, as if to do so involves some prejudice? Shouldn't he give a better example to African Americans by resisting the impulse to request special treatment and preference based on race?